tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post3264032341462431722..comments2023-09-25T02:17:01.787-07:00Comments on Bar Mitzvahzilla: Ship to ShoreLinda Pressmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-71746023090157342402010-02-23T00:01:51.772-07:002010-02-23T00:01:51.772-07:00Terresa, that is so funny. Last year my mom and st...Terresa, that is so funny. Last year my mom and stepfather went on a month-long cruise to the Hawaiian Islands and this year it's South America. And yes, the seven of us are desolate, sending a few emails back and forth but waiting for our mom to return so she can be our switchboard operator!<br /><br />We told them to go enjoy themselves but, really, these are long trips!Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-72374435717923503652010-02-22T10:26:10.299-07:002010-02-22T10:26:10.299-07:00I love this post for many reasons.
1. "Are y...I love this post for many reasons.<br />1. "Are you my mother?" is a book we own & adore, countless times over. I've read it to my 4 kids until we had to buy another one. Then we got the Spanish version, "Eres mi mama?" which for me, flows even better in places than the story in English. Love This Book!<br /><br />2. My own parents took a similar sounding South America cruise 2 years ago. They were gone a very long time and adored the trip. We, their 5 children, however, did not. For similar reasons that you state. How was I going to get my daily (if not, twice daily) mom phone call fix? How could they do this to us?<br /><br />They did. And they've done it again & again. (They just got back from a Hawaaian cruise two weeks ago & I'm still recovering...)<br /><br />PS: Saw your guest post on Motherese today. Lovely! Motherese is a wonderful blog, as is yours.*https://www.blogger.com/profile/06484208765656281917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-62125963939303544592010-02-20T23:25:09.166-07:002010-02-20T23:25:09.166-07:00Lisa, it is a little weird when we all work each o...Lisa, it is a little weird when we all work each other up into a frothing lather about something, emails flying back and forth, texts flying hither and fro. And of course, you'd understand this well. It was the attorney sister who finally wouldn't accept no for an answer and got through! Typical.Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-53694216044126400562010-02-20T23:22:25.195-07:002010-02-20T23:22:25.195-07:00Kristen, writing this piece, though, kind of made ...Kristen, writing this piece, though, kind of made me wonder how enamored adoptive families would be of that book - like isn't the bird looking for a mother bird who looks just like him? I just want you to know that reading your blog has made me too brainy. I would never have thought that before!Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-57693754721008284672010-02-20T23:18:51.279-07:002010-02-20T23:18:51.279-07:00Thanks BLW! (And thanks for the award - I might be...Thanks BLW! (And thanks for the award - I might be slow but, hey, I read your blog!). Okay, then, I guess I'll keep the crap coming, er, keep writing my entries, that is.Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-49076313765154754782010-02-20T14:27:59.289-07:002010-02-20T14:27:59.289-07:00One of mine and my daughter's favorite books! ...One of mine and my daughter's favorite books! I love your take on it, love the "litter" and "don't call back" - now we'll see what happens once she gets home...!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11023074080820414065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-78961221829562583402010-02-19T19:50:30.203-07:002010-02-19T19:50:30.203-07:00That book is an inter-generational family favorite...That book is an inter-generational family favorite chez Motherese. I just read it to Big Boy earlier today. I think it's always easier to miss when one is the party left behind, pursuing her day-to-day activities, and easier to be missed when one is living it up on a cruise!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-91169749869953194452010-02-19T13:14:26.853-07:002010-02-19T13:14:26.853-07:00Love this! We're happy to listen to your "...Love this! We're happy to listen to your "stupid crap." And we don't even think it's stupid! (I talk to myself, and one very lovely woman a few states away, who listens to ALL my stupid crap with incredible patience and forebearance. She's a parent. I think it serves as training for that. And it's always appreciated.)<br /><br />Good day for travel tales, apparently! (And don't forget your tiara when it's time for your acceptance speech, uh... list... <i>cryptic? moi?</i>)BigLittleWolfhttp://dailyplateofcrazy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-43937890018051585342010-02-19T00:58:30.312-07:002010-02-19T00:58:30.312-07:00Chris, I really hope my kids have the same problem...Chris, I really hope my kids have the same problem with me and my husband after their at college! That would be great if we're off traipsing around the world and they get to worry about us!<br /><br />But I mean, really. They're having THAT good of a time. I thought her life revolved around us...Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-69896146680886659232010-02-19T00:56:26.165-07:002010-02-19T00:56:26.165-07:00Amber, I think sometimes it's hard for our mot...Amber, I think sometimes it's hard for our mothers to accept us as mothers when we're new to it. My mother has always ranted at me, "I raised seven daughters!" Implying she knows how to do everything better than me, even with my kids! So, yeah, you probably need a little space till she gets over that!Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-1655355774781271882010-02-19T00:12:27.814-07:002010-02-19T00:12:27.814-07:00lol, your mom is probably having the time of her l...lol, your mom is probably having the time of her life.<br />I still remember calling my mom's house...couldn't get a hold of her for three days. Nearly drove back to Michigan...finally, I call and she answers...<br />me...I say <br />'WHERE WERE YOU?!!!"<br />She goes "Off riding my new motorcycle...MOTHER!"<br />lol.<br />She and my step dad had purchased a Honda Gold wind and had gone on a 'road trip.'<br />I say " I hope you were careful."<br />oy.<br />children er...parents.<br />lol.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-22826253257005721502010-02-18T23:16:57.292-07:002010-02-18T23:16:57.292-07:00I think about that book in a different light. Ser...I think about that book in a different light. Seriously, I think my kids often wonder who their mother is. Well, at least my son. My daughter has started calling me "mommy" finally. i guess I have a little bit of hope?<br /><br />Anyway, I used to call my mother everyday until I realized it frustrated me. I am in the process of re-evaluating our relationship. I'll let you know how that goes. : )amber_mtmchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17871256362646081536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-22230307899183579212010-02-18T22:36:13.017-07:002010-02-18T22:36:13.017-07:00Aidan, especially when it's a parent, I think ...Aidan, especially when it's a parent, I think we get used to leaving our parents behind our whole lives, like we're the ones with such interesting, dashing, busy lives. Then suddenly, what do you know? I have the boring life and my mother's out gallivanting around the world!Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-21172665127628990352010-02-18T21:15:53.164-07:002010-02-18T21:15:53.164-07:00Great post! And, yes, it is frustrating and unnerv...Great post! And, yes, it is frustrating and unnerving to miss someone when they don't seem to miss you! Must get this book for the kiddos :)Aidan Donnelley Rowley @ Ivy League Insecuritieshttp://ivyleagueinsecurities.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-80913654516411914222010-02-18T19:59:42.375-07:002010-02-18T19:59:42.375-07:00TKW, I swear I was deprived as a kid. My mother re...TKW, I swear I was deprived as a kid. My mother read me nothing except this unbearable antique book about a Moose and sang Que sera Que sera. But this type of book can get to you after a while! Where's the darn mother already?Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-41870234667977683782010-02-18T19:56:49.684-07:002010-02-18T19:56:49.684-07:00Charlotte, It did take about a week for us to get ...Charlotte, It did take about a week for us to get alarmed but then it was like we were of one body and one mind (must be the big family syndrome...) because then we panicked as one! Now I guess we'll have to squelch our anxiety as one.Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-84194954759563864702010-02-18T19:54:46.743-07:002010-02-18T19:54:46.743-07:00Nicki, I would say that's like us but my mom h...Nicki, I would say that's like us but my mom has no idea how to retrieve a message on her cell phone! And a text? No. She still calls emails "faxes." You see what I'm dealing with.Linda Pressmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01809808676659629555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-24027392590536135162010-02-18T09:34:56.951-07:002010-02-18T09:34:56.951-07:00Oh my god! I am laughing and shaking my head. Are ...Oh my god! I am laughing and shaking my head. Are You My Mother? was my absolute favorite book when I was little. Mama got SO sick of reading it to me. It's still a joke, to this day.<br /><br />And? I call her every day. And when she's out of town she never calls me and it makes me nuts!<br /><br />Obviously, I can relate to this post! How dare she tell you not to call! Hmph!TKWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16409505008377005185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-42364567911745642342010-02-18T08:20:40.736-07:002010-02-18T08:20:40.736-07:00I am a horrible and dysfunctional phone caller. L...I am a horrible and dysfunctional phone caller. Luckily my mom has 5 other good children to call her. It just never occurs to me to pick up a phone and call about anything. <br /><br />I would start to freak out if I heard nothing while they were on a cruise, but it would take me about 4 days to notice nothing was going on.<br /><br />Thinking I need to start forcing a once a day call, my mom would like that. <br /><br />I've always liked that book. I should find it for my little one.Charlottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16349403417525132723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3156821579309080273.post-28296561667867316562010-02-18T05:55:08.555-07:002010-02-18T05:55:08.555-07:00I thought I was doing a good thing by sending my m...I thought I was doing a good thing by sending my mother a quick text about the issues/incident at my son's university the other night. She didn't check her phone until I was in a meeting the next day. She called and I couldn't talk. It went round and round. I guess I should have realized she wouldn't have heard about it on the West Coast and left the original "#2 is okay" text unsent.Nickihttp://www.nickisnook.netnoreply@blogger.com